Most people arrange one or two funerals in their lifetime, usually while in acute grief. The process is unfamiliar, the decisions are significant, and there is very little time. This checklist is designed to help you see the whole picture at once, so nothing gets missed and nothing feels more overwhelming than it needs to be.
Not everything on this list is urgent. Some items need to happen within hours. Others can wait days or weeks. The order below reflects a typical sequence.
In the first 24 hours
Immediate steps
- Confirm the death is certified by a doctor
- Notify immediate family and close friends
- Contact a funeral director to collect the body
- If the death was unexpected or sudden, contact 000 — the coroner may need to be involved before the body can be released
- If the person died at home, secure the property
- If the person died in hospital or aged care, arrange to collect belongings when ready
For more detail on the first hours, see our guides to what to do when someone dies at home, in hospital, and in aged care.
Choosing a funeral director
The funeral director you choose will guide much of what follows. They handle collection of the body, preparation, death registration, coordination with the cemetery or crematorium, and the logistics of the service. Take a few minutes to compare options if you can — costs and approaches vary significantly.
Choosing a funeral director
- Get a general price guide from two or three directors before committing
- Confirm they service your area and can collect promptly
- Ask whether they handle all arrangements in-house or outsource some services
- Check Google reviews or comparefuneraldirectors.com.au for independent feedback
- Confirm everything in writing before signing an authority form
See our full guide to choosing a funeral director in Australia.
Deciding on burial or cremation
This is the first significant decision and it affects many of the choices that follow. If the person left any instructions — in a Will, a letter of wishes, or a conversation you remember — start there. If not, the decision falls to the next of kin.
Burial or cremation
- Check whether the person left any written or spoken wishes
- Consider religious or cultural preferences
- Confirm whether a burial plot is already owned or needs to be purchased
- If cremation, decide what will happen with the ashes
- Consider cost — direct cremation is significantly cheaper than a full burial service
Our guide to burial versus cremation in Australia covers the practical, financial, and emotional considerations in detail.
Planning the service
A funeral service can take many forms. It does not need to be held in a church or follow a traditional format. The decisions below will shape the kind of farewell you create.
Service decisions
- Type of service — funeral, memorial, celebration of life, graveside service, or no service
- Venue — funeral home chapel, church, community hall, outdoor space, or family property
- Date and time — typically 5 to 10 days after the death, depending on family availability and the coroner's involvement if applicable
- Officiant — celebrant, religious minister, or family-led
- Speakers and eulogists — who will speak and for how long
- Music — for entry, reflection, and exit
- Order of service — printed or digital program
- Floral arrangements
- Reception or gathering after the service
- Livestream for those who cannot attend
- Coffin or casket selection
See our full guide to how to plan a funeral in Australia for more on each of these decisions.
Writing and tributes
Writing tasks
- Eulogy or tribute — who is writing it and who will deliver it
- Death notice or obituary for a newspaper or online publication
- Social media post or family notification
- Order of service text
- Thank you cards for after the service
Our guides to writing a eulogy and writing a death notice or obituary cover these in detail.
Understanding costs
Funeral costs in Australia vary widely depending on the type of service, the state, and the funeral director. It is worth having a clear picture early so you can make decisions with confidence.
Financial planning
- Request an itemised quote from your funeral director
- Check whether the person had funeral insurance or a pre-paid funeral plan
- Confirm whether the estate can cover costs upfront, or whether family will contribute
- Check eligibility for the Centrelink bereavement payment if applicable
- Keep all receipts — funeral costs may be claimable from the estate
See our guides to understanding funeral costs in Australia and the Centrelink bereavement payment.
Paperwork and notifications
Admin tasks
- Death registration — your funeral director typically handles this with your input
- Order multiple certified copies of the death certificate (you will need at least 5 to 10)
- Notify Services Australia to cancel Centrelink and Medicare payments
- Notify the ATO
- Notify banks and financial institutions
- Notify superannuation funds
- Cancel Medicare, driver's licence, passport
- Notify the Australian Electoral Commission
- Cancel utilities, subscriptions, and online accounts
Our guide to who to notify when someone dies covers each of these in detail with direct links to the relevant forms.
The first week is for the immediate steps and the funeral. The paperwork and notifications can happen in the weeks that follow. Be realistic about what you can manage at a time of grief, and ask for help where you can.
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