Once the cremation is complete — usually within a few days — the ashes are returned to the family, typically in a temporary container or urn. What happens next is entirely up to you. There is no timeline and no obligation.
This guide covers your options and the practical and legal considerations in Australia.
There's no rush
Many families feel pressure to make a decision about ashes quickly. There isn't one. Ashes can be kept at home indefinitely, stored with a funeral director for a period while you decide, or divided between family members. Many families keep ashes for months or even years before deciding on a permanent resting place.
Keep the ashes at home
There is no law in Australia that prevents you from keeping ashes at home in an urn or other container. Many families find comfort in having them close. There is no permit required and no time limit. If you move house, you can take them with you. If you travel internationally, check the requirements of the destination country — some require documentation.
Scatter the ashes
Scattering ashes is legal across most of Australia but there are conditions depending on the location:
- On private land: You need the landowner's permission. On your own property, no permission is needed.
- In national parks or state forests: Most states require a permit or prior approval from the relevant parks authority. Contact them directly.
- At sea: Permitted in Australian waters under the Environment Protection (Sea Dumping) Act, as long as you scatter more than 3 nautical miles from the coast. No permit is required for ashes.
- On public land (beaches, parks, sports grounds): Rules vary by council and state. Check with your local council — many have designated memorial areas or simple approval processes.
- From an aircraft: Permitted in designated airspace — contact your local aviation authority.
Scattering ashes in rivers, lakes or inland waterways is subject to varying state regulations and may require approval from the relevant water authority or local council. Check before you scatter.
Bury the ashes
Ashes can be buried in a cemetery — in a dedicated cremation plot, a family grave, or a columbarium niche (a wall of small compartments designed to hold urns). Cemetery burial provides a permanent, dedicated place to visit and is available at most Australian cemeteries. Costs vary considerably — from a few hundred dollars for a shared garden to several thousand for a private plot.
Ashes can also be buried on private land with the landowner's permission, though this may affect property sales in future and is worth researching before proceeding.
Memorial garden or tree
Several Australian cemeteries and memorial parks offer garden burial, where ashes are interred in a garden setting without a traditional headstone. Some providers also offer living memorial trees, where ashes are incorporated into the soil around a tree planted in a memorial garden.
Memorial objects
A small portion of ashes can be incorporated into a range of memorial objects — including jewellery (pendants, rings), glass art, ceramics, and vinyl records. These are increasingly popular and can be a meaningful way for family members to feel connected to the person they've lost.
Several Australian providers offer these services. Costs typically range from $200 for a simple pendant to several thousand for a piece of art glass.
Divide the ashes
There is no legal restriction on dividing ashes between family members. Some families scatter a portion at a meaningful location, keep a portion at home, and use a small amount for memorial jewellery. If you plan to divide the ashes, ensure you have a suitable container for each portion.
Donate to memorial gardens
Many Australian botanic gardens, memorial parks and bushland reserves accept ashes for scattering in designated areas. This can be a meaningful option for those with a connection to the land or a love of nature. Check with the relevant institution for their specific process.
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If you're planning ahead, Remember Well• gives you a place to record your preferences for what should happen with your ashes — so your family knows exactly what you'd want.
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